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Thoughts from your Systems Goddess, Sandye Linnetz, Process Prodigy

Friday the 13th turned out to be a real Friday the 13th for me this year… My cute little vanilla PT Cruiser got a ride on a tow truck and I got a ride in an ambulance! Apparently stopping for a red light doesn’t guarantee that the guy behind you will do the same. Nothing broken… no blood… but, oh the pain in the head, neck and shoulders! My daughter (who was visiting from NYC) arrived at the emergency room just after I did and my son a few minutes after that. The police, firemen, paramedics, doctors, nurses and techs were kind, efficient and actually fun!

So here’s what I discovered as I laid in the emergency room with neck brace and very cool new I.D. bracelet… something I’ve known about for years and years and yet never really, truly, deeply understood… IT IS NOT THE CONTENT OF YOUR LIFE that makes a difference, IT IS ALL ABOUT THE CONTEXT! hmmmmmm

Okay, that’s a thought provoker. Actually brought tears to my eyes. What does it mean? Short, simple answer (though I don’t know if there really IS one): It’s not about the circumstances or the stuff IN your life, it’s what you make that stuff mean.

Let’s face it, we humans attach meaning to everything – all of life’s content, all of the time. It’s how we make sense of the world. We constantly judge and evaluate… everyone and everything. Good. Bad. Positive. Negative. And then, once we give something meaning, we make that meaning be the TRUTH. Even though we made it up, we make it the TRUTH – and then we do something about it. We act and react to the meanings we have given to the people and events in our lives.

I could say “I, an innocent bystander, driving ever so lawfully in a car that I planned to sell in a few days, noticed that the light ahead had turned red so I slowed to stop with the cars ahead of me. Then, a totally self-absorbed, unaware idiot (who was probably on his cell phone) thoughtlessly rammed into me at a ridiculously unsafe speed and smashed me into the vehicle in front of me, causing my innocent little car and my innocent little body crushing, straining damage and set off a chain of events which would prove to be unpleasant, annoying, time consuming and life-altering!” What a jerk!!! Poor little Systems Goddess!!!

What happened is:
My car stopped.
The car behind me didn’t stop.
Our cars collided.

Isn’t that why they call them “accidents”?

You know what content is. (Over the years you’ve read “tables” of them)! It’s the events, people, things… the “stuff” that makes up life.

CONTENT is the “stuffing”… CONTEXT is the turkey… Get it? Ever notice how much better the stuffing tastes when it is cooked in the bird and served with turkey? Your context is the framework, the climate, the background story you made up and live by. It determines how you “hold” and what you do with the circumstances of your life.

As I iced my neck that night, I realized that, far more important than the car, the unused tickets for Crosby, Stills and Nash at the Greek, cleaning the house or going for a run, was my family – my children – relationships and humanity. Oh, and laughter and FUN. That’s what I value. That’s what matters to me most. And that’s exactly how my life is designed – how I designed it.

This Goddess has a CONTEXT of “a wonderful life filled with family, friends and fun”. In that context, “stuff” happens. That’s all, it’s just stuff and it just happens. The stuff doesn’t define me… the context does. And that feels really good. That doesn’t hurt at all!

© 2008 Beth Schneider, Process Prodigy, Inc. Want to reprint this article? Feel free as long as you include the following: Beth Schneider, President of Process Prodigy Inc., www.processprodigy.com, along with her team of highly sought after operations consultants, reveal the insider secrets billion-dollar corporations pay thousands of dollars for. Specializing in process creation, Process Prodigy tools and techniques have helped entrepreneurs increase productivity by as much as 600%, and revenues by as much as 250%. Visit www.processprodigy.com/ezine and grab your FREE systems starter kit valued at $297.00.

It’s A Shell Game!

Saturday, December 8th, 2007

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Thoughts from Sandye Linnetz, Systems Goddess, Process Prodigy

A departure from the “normal” blog routine… but this just had to be shared! Some of you may already know about this; others will be as surprised and delighted as I was.There I was, making breakfast for my daughter (who was visiting from out of town) and feeling like a natural born short order cook, when I did it… I got a tiny piece of eggshell in the scrambled eggs! Nothing, and I mean nothing, is worse than biting into a piece of shell when enjoying scrambled eggs. Try as might, I could not get that annoying bit out of the mix.In walked daughter, Dani, ready for breakfast, and found me digging around the bowl in vain. That’s when I learned the miracle of the egg shell magnet.Apparently, when a disaster like this occurs, there is a quick and simple fix. Dani to the rescue! She showed me how taking another piece of shell and dipping it into the eggs, actually works like a little magnet and voila, the offending bit of shell is stuck to the second piece and… shell-free scrambled eggs.Okay, this might not change your life, but consider this: whatever you’re dealing with – in life or business – does have a workable solution. And, thinking about the law of attraction (as so many of us are these days) know that you can attract what you want… by simply acknowledging what you already have and using that. Hmmmm© 2007 Beth Schneider, Process Prodigy, Inc.Want to reprint this article? Feel free as long as you include the following: Beth Schneider, President of Process Prodigy Inc., www.processprodigy.com, along with her team of highly sought after operations consultants, reveals the insider secrets billion-dollar corporations pay thousands of dollars for. Specializing in process creation, the Process Prodigy tools and techniques have helped entrepreneurs increase productivity by as much as 600%, and revenues by as much as 250%. Visit www.processprodigy.com and sign up to receive the Process Prodigy Ezine, “Your Tips” and the FREE Report “How to Save Yourself Time Energy and Money”.

BUT I HAVE TO PUT OUT THE FIRE!

Saturday, November 24th, 2007

 [display_podcast]Thoughts from Sandye Linnetz, Systems Goddess Process ProdigyThere are lots of things that STOP us from getting our work done during the course of our days. There are phone calls, pangs of hunger, “small” favors for others, errands to run, questions to answer and mail to read. “You’ve Got Mail” is an all too real and familiar example for most of us. I mean, come on, what interrupts us – and takes up our valuable time – more than reading and replying to emails? Many of our daily interruptions can be put off for a more convenient time, delegated to someone else or ignored… unless it’s a fire we have to put out.Emergencies are unexpected interruptions – sometimes urgent and valid. So, how do we identify when we are faced with a true emergency?First let’s take a look at what constitutes an emergency. There are four possible descriptions for any interruption. The situation may be:1. NOT URGENT and NOT IMPORTANT (a phone call from a solicitor)2. NOT URGENT and IMPORTANT (a client has a question)3. URGENT and NOT IMPORTANT (someone needs a phone number NOW)4. URGENT and IMPORTANT (your #1 client wants to make some changes to an order ready to be shipped)Obviously, in situation #1, your immediate attention is not required. You have the luxury of delegating or ignoring – or stopping what you are doing. And, let’s face it; there are times when we actually hope for an interruption. Only you can decide to stop what you are doing. If you do decide to stop, be sure to record what you were doing and where you were on it…Situation #2 requires handling – not necessarily by you, and not necessarily immediately. You can choose to STOP and take a moment to explain that you know that this is IMPORTANT. You can then arrange for a better time to talk about it, or reroute the question to an associate who will have the necessary information. Frequently people just want to acknowledge their importance.Emergencies are not necessarily YOUR emergencies. When someone interrupts you with their emergency you will need to determine if you have the time (or the inclination) to STOP what you are doing and take on their problem. It’s easy to get caught up in the trap of assuming other people’s emergencies and time constraints. That’s fine when they don’t interfere with your own, but be alert to the possibility that YOU may not need to handle someone else’s problem. You may be able to give some quick suggestion that will empower someone to take care of it by his or her self. Most likely, situation #3 will either be handled quickly – by you – or rerouted to a team member who is equipped to handle it. Delegation is invaluable here!That brings us to situation #4… URGENT and IMPORTANTURGENT (adjective)(of a state or situation) requiring immediate action or attentionIMPORTANT (adjective)of great significance or value; likely to have a profound effect on success, survival, or well-beingSituation #4 is when you put the fireman’s hat on your head! When an interruption is both IMPORTANT (to you) and URGENT, your attention is demanded. This is when you STOP whatever you are doing. Concentrate on what needs to happen with immediacy and HANDLE it. Take control, and do so without losing sight of what you were doing. Eventually, because you have recorded what you were doing and where you were; RESUME your current tasks.The list of the four possible INTERRUPTION situations – and examples of each – should be shared with your entire team. A process to handle these interruptions can be co-created after a discussion of what “has come up” and what ”could come up” in the course of a normal business day. Design a system for determining emergencies and how to handle them. Like the Boy Scouts and the Fire Department, BE PREPARED is important for handling every situation…and PUTTING OUT FIRES.© 2007 Beth Schneider, Process Prodigy, Inc. Want to reprint this article, feel free as long as you include the following: Beth Schneider, President of Process Prodigy Inc., www.processprodigy.com has a team of highly sought after operations consultant who reveals the insider secrets billion-dollar corporations pay thousands of dollars for. Specializing in process creation, her tools and techniques have helped entrepreneurs increase productivity by as much as 600%, and revenues by as much as 250%. Visit www.processprodigy.com and sign up to receive her Ezine, “Your Tips” and for a FREE Report on how to Save Yourself Time Energy and Money